Love & Conflict

She is an energetic girl with high enthusiasm and passion...
She is a strong-willed girl with a persistency in learning something new...
She is very perfectionist and independant girl...
She is a caring girl but with low interpersonal skills...
And so, life won't be easy for people that love her...

He always hope to be with her more often...
So much that he can sacrifice almost anything to be with her...
His time... His academic... His interest... His social life...
The bonding of him for her is too strong...
That he often force himself to tolerate her schedule...

She wouldn't give in for love....
Coz she would give up anything for her passion...
She wouldn't expect anything from others...
Coz she would expect everything from herself...
She is a typical career woman....

He is so sad and stress....
That the laughter and joys he once possesses had perished ....
He is so emotional and weak....
That tears dripping down continually....
He is mightless and in dilemma....

For he understood what the girl had expected from him...
But yet, it's contradicting to his need...
Both wouldn't give in to tolerate others need...
Both couldn't find a way to tolerate others need...
Both haven't find a mutual path...

And so....
Only lonely moonlight and quiet dark sky accompany him...
When she was busy with her schedule...
Only tears and old sweet memories befriended him...
When she was working towards self-fulfilling dream...
Only her smile image and voice rang with conviction in his eye and ear...
When she was committing herself to her own course of wishes...

Loving someone too much?
Or loving someone in a wrong way?
Obsessive love?
Or passionate love?
Think too much of the relationship?
Or care too much of it?

Love isn't that perfect as it was thought to be...
It's so hard to find someone that will compliment us fully...
Even to tolerate others need is quite challenging...
Or to learn to give up own interest to fulfill others need...

It takes us time and experience to learn to love...
To rectify and appreciate the sacrifice and care of a person...
By being more passionate and sensitive....
To learn about the person...
By spending more quality time with him/her...
To adapt to others need and lifestyle...
By modifying our solo life into duet life...

I have seen many relationship stories...
Initiated by humble but yet full of delicate and sweet love...
Full of unique love story and sweet, romantic memories...
And yet ended with disastrous parting process...

To all my fellow friends...
Appreciate your partner...
By action and words...
Love your partner...
By adapting each other lifestyle...
Or modifying ours to minimize contradiction...
Understand your partner...
By having more time for both to communicate thoughts and viewpoint...

Appreciate them before you lose them...
And start to realize how selfish we used to be...
And begin to discover how much he/she has done to maintain the relationship...
And regretted our ignorance of the two-person built world...

Think about it....
Slowly and calmly...
What you have done for yourself and people around you today?...
Have you neglected them or take for granted for their care for you?...
What about their feeling and need?...
Spend some time on this every night before you sleep and for sure you'll be a more sensitive and empathic person...